How to Attract Men: Personality

Men can be lured in with physical appearance but they don’t settle down or get into relationships just because of that. A man falls in love with a woman and wants a relationship with someone that makes him feel good.

Men are attracted to women with a good personality and this encompasses how you make him feel and how you communicate and act with other people.

There are two types of attraction, the physical attraction and intellectual attraction. If you ask a woman the question of “what men want” the obvious answer will be physical attraction.

The reality is that is not even scratching the surface of what fuels relationships. Physical attraction is just about looks and other external stuff… and it’s not permanent.

Physical attraction is when you start flirting with a guy that comes up to you at a bar. You like him because of his looks, body language and style… that is all physical.

Intellectual attraction is unrelated to looks and external factors, it happens when a man identifies with something that is unique about your personality. This can come from different things like status, attitude, voice tonality, posture and how other people react to you. You confidence and humor are also characteristics of intellectual attraction.

Intellectual Attraction

These are the principles of intellectual attraction: a man can only be attracted to a woman that has equal status, and the attraction is more intense if the woman is higher status.

When a guy has intellectual attraction for a woman, that woman is in a unique class where she deserves his admiration and respect.

To seduce a man you need both physical and intellectual attraction. A lot of other things can change but if your man is physically and intellectually attracted to you then all chances are on your side.

Traits of a Magnetic Personality

So let’s identify a few of the traits that make for an attractive personality so you can amp up that intellectual attraction:

Have a sense of humor. Guys love a woman that is funny and witty. If you can make a man laugh this you will do great!

Creativity and intelligence. Not to be confused with being a geek, but a creative and intelligent woman is attractive when used in a charming and fun way.

Be thoughtful. You won’t get a guy attracted to you by buying stuff for him, doing chores for him or by kissing up. Men also don’t like neediness as in “I miss you so much and feel so lonely… I really need you”. However, guys like girls that are thoughtful so send him a text message or an email and let him know he is on your mind.

Be perceptive. Guys love to be noticed at something that they are good or smart in some area because they are proud of it.

Adventurous and fun. Men and women bond easily when there is something fun and adventurous going on with another person. Manny guys like girls who like unusual and adventurous things. Because these activities bring excitement into their life it means that you become an exciting and fun person in their eyes.

Confident and playful. Men like confident and playful women, but remember that this doesn’t mean cocky (maybe just a little).

Women with talent and knowledge. Guys like women with some substance so if you are good at something it can be interesting and surprising to a man. Don’t do it in a way that shows it’s obvious that you want to impress him.

Give him some attention. Guys like attention just like girls do. This is best done when you are talking to him you let him know that you were thinking about something he said earlier, instead of really listening to him and looking very attentive. The first one is much more effective and less time consuming.

Be a challenge. Men are always the ones that go after women, so set things up in a way so that he can make the first steps in the escalation. Let the man be the man!

A little bit aggressive. A woman that goes after what she wants is sexy to a man. This goes hand in hand with being confident and a go getter. This doesn’t mean chasing guys; it means that you make an effort to achieve your objectives.

Be assertive. Guys are normally the leaders and women that can show confidence and assertiveness prove that genuine confidence.

Teasing and sexual tension. Guys like sex and good lovers are not easy to find. If you know how to be sexy and move well in bed you can hook a guy easily. Teasing a man, building sexual tension and making him go crazy is a great way to make him come back over and over.

Make him guess. Guys like women that have the right balance between being predictable and unpredictable. A woman that flirts and gives him attention… and takes it away the next day. A predictable woman is only good when a man is looking to get married. Being predictable has its place when things get more serious and long term.

These are some of the attractive personality traits that a woman can have to attract men naturally. To know more about these characteristics and how you can combine them read the article on how to attract men and how to seduce a man.

These characteristics create a better dynamic in the couple and they also help to avoid relationship problems because you naturally bring excitement and change into the relationship!