How to Attract a Man

In the article on how to get a guy to like you we talked about the core concepts that make guys attracted to women for a long term relationship and we also talked about what makes them run away from commitment.

Now comes the important part… tips to become more attractive on an intellectual level.

I will only talk about intellectual attractiveness here but that doesn’t mean that being physically attractive is something you should forget about… We should always strive to be our best selves!

Physical attractiveness is important and you should also work or keep working on that… to know more about that you can read beauty magazines…

Intellectual Attraction… Got It?

As we established on the article how to get a guy to like you, some women have a natural ability to make guys feel at ease, challenge them and make guys attracted to them. So why do you think that these women are naturally good with men? Is it because they have some special secret tactic that other women don’t have?

No… it’s not a secret technique or tactic. The big difference between these girls that naturally trigger attraction and the average girls is that they don’t let their fears limit their actions and behavior with men.

No Fear of Failure!

For them their past failures don’t limit their ability to create an exciting and interesting interaction with a guy. Creating a fun and magnetic interactions with a guy make him attracted on a physical and intellectual level!

These are a few of the characteristics of these naturally attractive women:

They keep the initial conversations with men short and fun.
They are unpredictable in a fun way.
Is unreactive to what a man says or does to her. This means she doesn’t freak out or have strange reactions when something unexpected happens.
These women understand instinctively what amplifies attraction between men and women without using exaggerated sexual speech or gestures.
In the initial conversations with men they don’t let it get to serious or boring with subjects related to boring subjects like religion, work our the usual conversational filler.
They know how to flirt with men and offer a challenge to them by doing clever conversational twists.
They know how to challenge men’s issues in a fun and non threatening way. Doing this in a causal and non dramatic way makes men think and make some mental effort on their part… most girls don’t do this.
When a guy starts flirting with them they don’t just accept the compliments but know how to throw the ball back and create some tension that leaves the guy intrigued and creates a stronger emotional bond and sexual attraction.
These girls know that having a good interaction in a casual and relaxed way is the best way to meet guys. Pressuring things and making them happen too soon is needy and doesn’t make him more attracted to you.
When they are in love with a guy they still have their own life. Having your interests and plans that are independent of a relationship is very important. Losing touch with your passions and the things you like to do in life is needy and it makes you unhappy and dependent on the relationship. Having hobbies, friends and other things in your life is crucial.
A woman that is successful in relationships and love doesn’t think too far ahead. She knows that creating a good vibe in the present is much more effective than trying to get the guy committing verbally to getting married or promising everlasting love.

In essence these naturally successful girls know that negative personality traits are attraction killers and they have an effective way to stay positive and make the guy happier just by being with him. When a woman has feelings of fear, insecurity and neediness she is killing attraction so they are and act happier and more positive just because of that.

If you have a girlfriend that has some of these traits you can learn a lot by going out with her and seeing how she acts around guys. Give her a call and tell her to go have a few drinks with you. Meet her at a place where there are a lot of guys that you find attractive and see how she gets into conversations without even trying.

This is a great way for you to learn by watching how she acts in a casual and relaxed manner. Look at her posture, where she sits in the room and how she interacts with the other people in the place, from the waiter to the good looking guy sitting beside her. Look at how she is challenging to guys that approach her but how she is able to keep a conversation going without sounding boring.

Pay special attention to the way she acts when she finds a guy that she is interested in. Doing this will help you understand and apply these principles and tips, so you can have the best relationship and dating experiences possible. These traits of attractive women are summarized and it’s more complicated to apply them than to read the topics I just wrote. Throught the site you can find more relationship advice for women and deeper explanations on each of the traits.