Men are attracted to women with a good personality and this encompasses how you make him feel and how you communicate and act with other people.

There are two types of attraction, the physical attraction and intellectual attraction. If you ask a woman the question of “what men want” the obvious answer will be physical attraction.

The reality is that is not even scratching the surface of what fuels relationships. Physical attraction is just about looks and other external stuff… and it’s not permanent.

Physical attraction is when you start flirting with a guy that comes up to you at a bar. You like him because of his looks, body language and style… that is all physical.

Intellectual attraction is unrelated to looks and external factors, it happens when a man identifies with something that is unique about your personality. This can come from different things like status, attitude, voice tonality, posture and how other people react to you. You confidence and humor are also characteristics of intellectual attraction.

Intellectual Attraction

These are the principles of intellectual attraction: a man can only be attracted to a woman that has equal status, and the attraction is more intense if the woman is higher status.

When a guy has intellectual attraction for a woman, that woman is in a unique class where she deserves his admiration and respect.

To seduce a man you need both physical and intellectual attraction. A lot of other things can change but if your man is physically and intellectually attracted to you then all chances are on your side.

Traits of a Magnetic Personality

So let’s identify a few of the traits that make for an attractive personality so you can amp up that intellectual attraction:

Have a sense of humor. Guys love a woman that is funny and witty. If you can make a man laugh this you will do great!

Creativity and intelligence. Not to be confused with being a geek, but a creative and intelligent woman is attractive when used in a charming and fun way.

Be thoughtful. You won’t get a guy attracted to you by buying stuff for him, doing chores for him or by kissing up. Men also don’t like neediness as in “I miss you so much and feel so lonely… I really need you”. However, guys like girls that are thoughtful so send him a text message or an email and let him know he is on your mind.

Be perceptive. Guys love to be noticed at something that they are good or smart in some area because they are proud of it.

Adventurous and fun. Men and women bond easily when there is something fun and adventurous going on with another person. Manny guys like girls who like unusual and adventurous things. Because these activities bring excitement into their life it means that you become an exciting and fun person in their eyes.

Confident and playful. Men like confident and playful women, but remember that this doesn’t mean cocky (maybe just a little).

Women with talent and knowledge. Guys like women with some substance so if you are good at something it can be interesting and surprising to a man. Don’t do it in a way that shows it’s obvious that you want to impress him.

Give him some attention. Guys like attention just like girls do. This is best done when you are talking to him you let him know that you were thinking about something he said earlier, instead of really listening to him and looking very attentive. The first one is much more effective and less time consuming.

Be a challenge. Men are always the ones that go after women, so set things up in a way so that he can make the first steps in the escalation. Let the man be the man!

A little bit aggressive. A woman that goes after what she wants is sexy to a man. This goes hand in hand with being confident and a go getter. This doesn’t mean chasing guys; it means that you make an effort to achieve your objectives.

Be assertive. Guys are normally the leaders and women that can show confidence and assertiveness prove that genuine confidence.

Teasing and sexual tension. Guys like sex and good lovers are not easy to find. If you know how to be sexy and move well in bed you can hook a guy easily. Teasing a man, building sexual tension and making him go crazy is a great way to make him come back over and over.

Make him guess. Guys like women that have the right balance between being predictable and unpredictable. A woman that flirts and gives him attention… and takes it away the next day. A predictable woman is only good when a man is looking to get married. Being predictable has its place when things get more serious and long term.

These are some of the attractive personality traits that a woman can have to attract men naturally. To know more about these characteristics and how you can combine them read the article on how to attract men and how to seduce a man.

These characteristics create a better dynamic in the couple and they also help to avoid relationship problems because you naturally bring excitement and change into the relationship!

In the article on how to attract a man we already talked about the idea of attraction and you got a general outline on how important attraction is now I will give you a some practical tips you can apply on your interactions with men.

These tips to make a guy more attracted to you can also intensify and amplify the attraction that a guy has for you already.

Failure: There Is No Such Thing…

Before we delve further into the subject we have to talk a little bit about failure and experimentation. Have you noticed that even the most successful women made many mistakes in relationships, with their career, with money and with friends? The reality is that the successful people had more failures than other people… simply because they try more and harder. The point I want to make is that making mistakes gives you a great advantage: you will learn a big lesson because as humans we learn best by failure.

What separates the successful women from the unsuccessful ones is how they react to failure. Successful people learn from their mistakes and they don’t make the same mistake twice. The next time this woman is in a similar situation her reaction won’t be the same. After making the mistake once it is less likely to happen again… this is true in every area of life… except in relationships and dating.

The Same Mistakes Over and Over Again

So why do the most successful women learn and improve their skills in almost every aspect of their life but not in dating and relationships? Even the women that go through the most painful situations in relationships don’t get the pattern! Most of the times it is not even their fault; they suffer because it’s the man’s fault. In other times it’s the woman’s issues or a mix of each partner’s issues.

Often it’s the more intelligent women that make the same mistakes over and over again and they have it the hardest to move on and stop suffering with it.

Is It A Hollywood Movie?

After years of studying men and women I know that the mainstream advice (what you read in magazines and bestselling books) doesn’t work and is counterproductive because it just keeps you going in circles.

What really works is not that obvious and these are things that you learn from experience and by analyzing patterns and previous relationships in an objective way.

What really creates and maintains attraction is very counter intuitive and goes against some social preconceptions and trends of the romantic Hollywood movies.

Wanted: Young, Beautiful and ______?

The first thing that you need to understand is that young and good looking women have some advantages but that is not the only thing that men are looking for.

Men feel attracted to more than that and want to settle down with a woman that is more than just attractive. Good looks are not what most guys are looking for… and guys that are looking for trophy girls are not the best relationship material.

What men are looking for is a woman that has her personal life and personality in check… what I mean by this is that men look for a woman that behaves like a good companion that stimulates intellectual attraction at a level that is deeper than the physical level.

The reality is that not every woman was born with the personality and the looks that attract great men without any effort. What is important to get out of this is that looks and age are not everything. You can learn how to create attraction on a physical and intellectual level if you want to.

Do You Have An Attractive Personality?

I am sure you have seen women that don’t have any problem attracting great guys… they don’t have to do any effort at all. These women can be very good looking, they can have a very magnetic personality or they can have both.

It’s almost certain that this woman attracts these men without ever having studied attraction or relationships. These women have a natural ability to relate to men and they have learned it in a natural way while they were growing up.

These women can attract and keep a guy attracted without having to do anything… guys just seem to gravitate towards them, approach them and want to seduce them. Even the men that are hard to get go up to them, try to seduce them and change into the perfect boyfriends for them.

Knowing women like these is a great way to see live examples of what we are talking about, you can learn a lot from that. These girls have never worried about relationships and scarcity of guys… they always have guys that want to be in bed or in a relationship with them.

For these women everything has become intuitive and easy, they do it without even realizing it and they haven’t gone through the natural process of making big mistakes and learning from them. These people are the exception, the rest of us have to learn from our many mistakes.

Now the real question is what can we learn from these women that are successful in relationships… and what can we learn from our own mistakes? What can we learn from other people’s successes and mistakes when it comes to dating, relationships and love? Now that you have a better idea on how to get a guy to like you we will talk about the personality traits that these successful women have and how you can adopt these qualities. To know more check out the continuation in the article on how to attract men.

Now comes the important part… tips to become more attractive on an intellectual level.

I will only talk about intellectual attractiveness here but that doesn’t mean that being physically attractive is something you should forget about… We should always strive to be our best selves!

Physical attractiveness is important and you should also work or keep working on that… to know more about that you can read beauty magazines…

Intellectual Attraction… Got It?

As we established on the article how to get a guy to like you, some women have a natural ability to make guys feel at ease, challenge them and make guys attracted to them. So why do you think that these women are naturally good with men? Is it because they have some special secret tactic that other women don’t have?

No… it’s not a secret technique or tactic. The big difference between these girls that naturally trigger attraction and the average girls is that they don’t let their fears limit their actions and behavior with men.

No Fear of Failure!

For them their past failures don’t limit their ability to create an exciting and interesting interaction with a guy. Creating a fun and magnetic interactions with a guy make him attracted on a physical and intellectual level!

These are a few of the characteristics of these naturally attractive women:

• They keep the initial conversations with men short and fun.
• They are unpredictable in a fun way.
• Is unreactive to what a man says or does to her. This means she doesn’t freak out or have strange reactions when something unexpected happens.
• These women understand instinctively what amplifies attraction between men and women without using exaggerated sexual speech or gestures.
• In the initial conversations with men they don’t let it get to serious or boring with subjects related to boring subjects like religion, work our the usual conversational filler.
• They know how to flirt with men and offer a challenge to them by doing clever conversational twists.
• They know how to challenge men’s issues in a fun and non threatening way. Doing this in a causal and non dramatic way makes men think and make some mental effort on their part… most girls don’t do this.
• When a guy starts flirting with them they don’t just accept the compliments but know how to throw the ball back and create some tension that leaves the guy intrigued and creates a stronger emotional bond and sexual attraction.
• These girls know that having a good interaction in a casual and relaxed way is the best way to meet guys. Pressuring things and making them happen too soon is needy and doesn’t make him more attracted to you.
• When they are in love with a guy they still have their own life. Having your interests and plans that are independent of a relationship is very important. Losing touch with your passions and the things you like to do in life is needy and it makes you unhappy and dependent on the relationship. Having hobbies, friends and other things in your life is crucial.
• A woman that is successful in relationships and love doesn’t think too far ahead. She knows that creating a good vibe in the present is much more effective than trying to get the guy committing verbally to getting married or promising everlasting love.

In essence these naturally successful girls know that negative personality traits are attraction killers and they have an effective way to stay positive and make the guy happier just by being with him. When a woman has feelings of fear, insecurity and neediness she is killing attraction so they are and act happier and more positive just because of that.

If you have a girlfriend that has some of these traits you can learn a lot by going out with her and seeing how she acts around guys. Give her a call and tell her to go have a few drinks with you. Meet her at a place where there are a lot of guys that you find attractive and see how she gets into conversations without even trying.

This is a great way for you to learn by watching how she acts in a casual and relaxed manner. Look at her posture, where she sits in the room and how she interacts with the other people in the place, from the waiter to the good looking guy sitting beside her. Look at how she is challenging to guys that approach her but how she is able to keep a conversation going without sounding boring.

Pay special attention to the way she acts when she finds a guy that she is interested in. Doing this will help you understand and apply these principles and tips, so you can have the best relationship and dating experiences possible. These traits of attractive women are summarized and it’s more complicated to apply them than to read the topics I just wrote. Throught the site you can find more relationship advice for women and deeper explanations on each of the traits.

Even the guys that act like players come to a stage that they want to stop playing around and want to find a woman to have a fulfilling relationship with.

But here is the problem… If the guy doesn’t know what he wants and if he doesn’t want to settle down and have a committed relationship, he won’t know how to maintain a healthy and happy relationship with you.

The most important relationship advice that a woman needs to know to make a relationship last is that most men don’t know what to do in order to develop a strong and intimate relationship. They just go on without any direction or strategy.

Relationships… Men Are Clueless!

Not all men are like this but most of the guys are like that, it’s a fact. When we want to figure out what we want with women we are hopeless. There are also guys that can’t settle down with the most perfect woman, even if they get along great.

Women are the opposite because they have an innate capability to find confidence and happiness in a relationship. This is a big difference between sexes and its one of the polarities between men and women.

This means that a woman has to take the responsibility to make the relationship go forward so that everything goes forward in a comfortable and smooth way. Like I talked about in these are traits of attractive women, read more about it in how to attract a man.

Knowing when the right time is to move forward and what mistakes to avoid is your job as the woman that is in the relationship. If you let the guy steer the relationship then it’s like moving in quicksand… the more you try to move, the deeper you get stuck.

If you are in love with a guy and he doesn’t know how to communicate what he wants in the relationship you are going to have to take the lead. This is not an optional step… you have to because if you don’t the relationship will be the way he wants it, leaving your interests in second place. Most men take the easiest path, the one that takes the least commitment possible, and that is not a good foundation for a healthy relationship.

Easy On The Pressure!

For you to do the right thing you need to understand an important detail about male psychology. When you appear eager or want to jump in a relationship to early, most guys think you are pressuring them and going too fast. This will make him pull away and want his distance. Dealing with this pressure the right way is crucial if you want to get into a relationship without pressuring him… read the article on how to get a guy to like you for more details!

I am sure you have seen this before with guys that you have dated or from stories your girlfriends told you. A common situation is that a woman gets to know the guy well after dating him for a few weeks or a couple of months. This makes her feel like she has a real chance with him for a long term relationship or to get married to the man.

When the woman starts acting on these feelings and communicates it to him in a direct or (in a not so) indirect way that she wants this type of commitment. Manny times this is a big problem for the guy because the woman is assuming incorrectly that he also wants to go the relationship to go further so soon. Doing this too early will kill attraction and make the guy move away because he fears the commitment.

Here are some tips on how you can communicate to a man that you want a long term relationships without pushing him away from you. It is important to understand a man’s dating psychology. If the guy you are dating is not pushing for a serious relationship that means he is just enjoying the time he spends with you and getting to know you better. At this time most guys haven’t thought if they want a long term commitment or not.

Real Commitment?

When you are in doubt if he wants a serious relationship or not it is best a big advantage to assume that he is still deciding. In my opinion this is the most important tip that you can get to be able to get into a relationship with a guy, without pressuring him into something that he is not ready for. Even if he wants it down the line, the fact that you are pressuring can make him uncomfortable and kill attraction and comfort.

When you don’t do this you give space and it will make him want to be closer to you. This may sound counter intuitive but it’s this relaxed relationship that doesn’t pressure him into commitment (something that almost all women do) that will motivate him to be closer and more attracted to you.

Why men are this way is a mystery. That is just the way it is. You know that people always want what they can’t have, and they don’t want things that just fall into their lap or that are pressured into their lap.

After telling you that I feel obliged to tell you that you should not accept it when men are distant, don’t call, flake, etc. When that happens a few weeks after meeting him you are dealing with an immature man. To know how to deal with this read the next article on how to solve relationship problems.

Like I started explaining in the post on relationship advice for women, when a guy gives you this kind of behavior you need to address it with assertive and confident observations.

Tell him in a calm but firm way that his distant behavior is not what you want in a relationship… that it!

If you say it as simple as I explained it will have a bigger impact than when you go on a drama ride explaining what is wrong and talking about his issues and how they really hurt you.

This would be whining and pressuring him into behaving in another way without giving him a choice.

The Most Effective Way Of Dealing with Problems

I have seen hundreds of strategies (or lack of strategies) that women take with men and the best way to handle these relationship problems is with a short, assertive and calm approach. This approach has the biggest impact when you want your man to grow closer to you.

Yo… Don’t Be Needy!

The thing is that most women can’t help their feelings in this kind of situation. When guys don’t communicate their feelings to a woman, she tends to fill that conversational gap… so she tells him everything about her that she wants to know about him. Thinking that your verbally expressed love and desire can make him talk about it is not going to work and its counterproductive like I explained in the article about how to make a guy like you.

Talking like this will be interpreted as pressuring him into a relationship or a deeper commitment that he might not be ready for. This is what most women do to guys, trying to covertly pressure him into a relationship and hoping that it sticks. This will work on some guys, but if you are dealing with a good catch that has other options it will most likely make him want to avoid this commitment.

Remember that some guys are not ready for commitment and that is why this kind of pressure doesn’t work. When you have a this scenario of big commitment in your head and make the man aware of that at the start of the relationship you will create an emotional gap between you and him. In each relationship there is someone that chases more than the other, one that leads a bit more… it is good to make the man think that he is the leader.

When you start leading and pacing to a higher commitment early on he will create this barrier by reflex. A man doesn’t know consciously… its just a natural reaction. Attractive women have the same with guys that chase them… it’s not male psychology… its human psychology.

Mutual Desire of Commitment

The desire for commitment in the relationship should be mutual and not it should have a natural feel to it. When either the woman or the man starts pressuring the side that gets pressure will have a tendency to have buyer’s remorse later on. Pressuring is not the right thing… not for a woman and not for a man.

There is a big difference between a happy and naturally evolving relationship and a relationship where one person imposes her desires and demands that the guy is responsible for making your desires true.

This is being needy at its worst state, because you are projecting neediness into the full length of the relationship and that is going to be an unhappy time for him. When you do this you trigger the guys “stay single” reaction… and when a man feels that his life is better, easier and happier when he is uncommitted or in a causal relationship… then you are gone.

The other side of this is that when a man does stay and he doesn’t seem to be totally happy he is staying with you because he thinks it’s the best choice. Maybe he thinks he “should” be in a relationship because of social and peer pressure, maybe he is afraid to be alone and thinks he cant get anyone else, etc. This whole situation is based on fear and negative emotions and this is not a good way to solidify your relationship.

When a real man is boxed into a situation like this, what do you think he will do? He might be in doubt for a while… but when he gets to his senses, what do you think he will do?

When men feel boxed in and have a feeling that they will have more freedom or less work when they are single they will avoid a more committed relationship. I know about this attitude because I have lived it… and this is a generic characteristic of men!

Even if you are very close to him and have a great connection, you still have to spend a lot of time with him until he starts thinking about a long term relationship. Although you should not pressure for a more committed relationship you can and should show that real commitment is something important for you. Remember that this has to be done in a non needy way and by not putting pressure on him. If you want to know how to solve relationship problems, want him to commit to a more serious relationship check out the next article. Any comments or questions? Then don’t hesitate to leave a comment!

Check out the article on how to get a guy to like you and how to attract a man to find out about the traits that naturally attractive women have.

After reading these articles you will understand what makes a man’s mind attracted to a woman… what creates attraction and a desire to have a long term relationship with you.

You Don’t Have To Be Warm And Cuddly All The Time

To be able to create and maintain attraction and excitement in the relationship is not achieve by doing what you need to achieve that. This is being a selfish and simplistic in the way you look at love. Attraction and love is felt by men and women but it’s not triggered in the same way for both sexes, there are some nuances. When you make the mistake of thinking that you have to give him what you desire will work to make him more attracted to you its selfish and it won’t work.

Find Out What He Really Wants

The key is to find out what other people really want and give it to them without compromising yourself, as opposed to offering them what you suppose they want. The difference is in the details and you will become much more attractive in their eyes. This applies to relationships and to all other areas life.

Don’t Be Selfish

Now let’s look at an example of giving something he really wants or imposing something that you would like him to want. This is a very important aspect in relationships and I first read about it in Christian Carter’s book called Catch Him and Keep Him. Christian Carter calls this “Selfish Love” and you avoiding this will make you and your partner happier.

Selfish love when you give to other people what makes you happy. This can happen because you just presuppose that what makes you happy makes everyone happy or because you can’t identify what makes another person happy and give them what makes you happy.

So you have to kind of step out of yourself and then your entire relationship will become easier and more enjoyable. You want your communication, behavior and emotions to trigger feelings and reactions in HIM. This is what the women that are naturally good with men do. It doesn’t come from female logic!

Let’s check out a practical example of how this can go wrong and you it can be corrected.

Let’s say have been dating with a great guy and he is taking you to a perfect weekend getaway. You get happy and excited because you are thinking about the nice things you will do during the weekend. Nice romantic stuff and some cool adventures that will be a lot of fun and grow your connection with him. You are really happy to go!

Then when you go on your getaway all your boyfriend has planned is guy stuff. So you sit on the couch, watch football, eat fast food, drink beer and watch porn. Would you have a lot of fun? Would this make you more attracted to him? Would you think that you guys have a great connection and feel an uncontrollable urge to marry him and settle down with him?

This example may be a little bit extreme and ridiculous but it’s like that so you get the point. Many women give this type of selfish love to men and expect it to do wonders. The same applies to the favors women do for men… sharing feelings, nurturing him, cooking, cleaning or shopping; they are all nice things to do but they don’t really do anything to get him more attracted or involved with you. A woman does these things because she would like someone else to do these things for her!

Whey you break up with a boyfriend and he is not interested in you anymore this can make any woman desperate. The actions you take when you are in this needy mental state can destroy your chances to get back together with him, so lets see what you can do about it.

When a woman does desperate things like creating drama, crying uncontrollably, making excessive phone calls or stalking it will destroy the chances of getting back together.

All these attitudes are needy and desperate and they will kill any attraction that he still has for you and it will make him lose respect for you.

When the boyfriend you love breaks up with you its very common to lose your cool and act in these desperate ways without even realizing you are going to far.

Lets talk about a few things you can do to keep a healthy a calm perspective on things so that you can use your rational mind when taking these decisions and get your guy back!

The best way to get your confidence back and feel better about yourself is to make your lifestyle better, this ranges from eating better, doing some exercise and getting an active social life again.

Avoid Contact with your Ex Boyfriend

First you should avoid contact with your ex. If he broke up with you or wanted some time then give it to him. Getting calls and texts from you is great for his ego but it will just validate him and it will not make him miss you.

Don’t give him any validation and he will be thinking about why you are not calling. He will wonder if you are already over him or if you found another guy… Keep him thinking and wondering about you, if you are always pursuing him he will lose attraction for you and will just want to avoid you.

Date Another Guy

This may feel counter intuitive but going on a few dates is a good way to feel attractive again and get your confidence back. When you go out with another guy you will feel validated with the attention and it will keep your mind of your ex boyfriend for a few hours.

This will show your ex boyfriend that you are going on with your life and that you are not totally devastated just because he broke up with you. This can make him come back to you in a matter of days because when jealousy ticks in many guys wake up to how good your relationship was with you and he doesn’t want you to forget him and move on.

(Look Like You Are) Moving On

You may think that its a bad thing that your ex boyfriend knows you are dating another guy, but its the other way around. When you start dating someone else it shows that you are moving on and that you are not hung up and desperate about your ex.

The trick here is to move on for real… or make it look like you are moving on. At times it can be impossible to forget your ex when you are still in love with him, so make it look like you are unaffected because of the breakup and give him the illusion that you are moving on as I described.

Self Confidence

Dating other guys will make you feel better and more validated because of the male attention you are getting. If you have been in a long relationship you may think that your ex boyfriend was the only guy for you… but when you realize that you are attractive to other guys this will make you more self assured and confident.

This elevated confidence will help you to be more contained and less desperate. These new dates don’t have to lead to a long term relationship, its just a way to have some fun and get your mind of your ex boyfriend.

Keeps Your Mind Off Your Ex Boyfriend

Eating better, doing some sports and having an active social life all make it easier to keep your mind of your ex boyfriend. If you stay at home crying, eating chocolate or ice cream you are not really doing anything to improve your situation. Wallowing in misery and self pity will make you unattractive and it will put you in a reactive and needy mental state.

This negative state of mind makes you unattractive and it will make you prone to act in ways that will push your ex boyfriend further away from you.

Doing these positive and constructive things reverses that negative state of mind and makes you look forward and appreciate your life better. You have to appreciate being single, then when you get your ex boyfriend back it will be a good life that becomes even better.

If you have gone out of a long relationship this will be hard to do, but you have to bite the bullet and go out of your comfort zone. Just do it and trust me on this! Crying and feeling bad about it will be counter productive in every way possible. It will make you depressed and it will narrow the chances of getting him back! Nobody likes needy sad people!

Do you flirt with him? Do you dress up and make yourself look more seductive? Do you go up to him and start a conversation? Do you try to get him somewhere quieter and more private? Or are you the kind of girl that likes a guy that makes the first move and approaches a woman?

All these little things can have big impact on the future relationships that you have and it can impact if you will seduce that particular man that you like.

The answers to those questions also say a lot about what you want in a man. For instance, if you are a woman that likes men’s attention but you are a little bit shy, you will only talk to men that approach you. Wanting male attention is not a problem, but this may cause you to have needy and controlling behaviors so you get the attention you want. These feelings may sound harmless but they are not a good start or a relationship. This kind of behavior sets of alarms in a guy’s subconscious and it makes you less attractive to men.

From what I have experienced in my relationship and from other men’s stories I conclude that women underestimate the importance of the small things, the short conversations, body language nuances, tonality and other things that show attitude. These may look like details, but when all these things work together a woman looks more attractive because of the way she carries herself.

It’s All In The Details

One important detail is voice tonality… many times it’s not what you say but how you say it. More than 80% of communication is non verbal so eye contact, voice tonality and other body language traits make up more than 80% of your communication style.

Have you ever experimented with your voice tonality and looked at what impact that has on your interactions? This can have a huge impact on how men perceive your personality and their attraction levels.

Because most people just use their natural communication skills they are not aware of the impact these details have on their personal energy and attractiveness. Being able to attract men will become easier when you are aware of this and it will enable you to learn from other women who do this naturally and understand and adopt the same techniques.

The women and men that are great communicators and have an attractive aura by nature are exceptions. The rest of us have to learn this from others or have the ability to look objectively at our past failures and learn from these mistakes.

Learn From Your Interactions

Imagine that you get a guy interested in you and you go on a few dates with him. You really like him but you see that he is not interested in a relationship… but you are! This is a very common situation for women… because men are clueless about relationship advice or solving relationship problems.

Men don’t really want to get into long term relationships just because… this is when the “single gene” awakes.

Real Relationship Advice

If a situation like this arises, what will you do? What are you going to tell him? Do you think it is best to be direct about wanting a relationship or should you be more subtle?

This is one of the most interesting things in the male/female dynamic because it can reveal you a lot of secrets about men and what makes them attracted and interested in a relationship and a deeper connection with a woman.

Because no man or woman is alike you can’t find a magic technique that works universally. Because of so many small nuances, what you need to do is experiment with details. You don’t have to start from scratch by throwing everything out… just try something slightly different.

Another trait of women that are successful is how they accept a “no” without seeing it as a rejection or an insult to their inner princess. Don’t make the mistake of taking things too seriously.

To see what the top characteristics are that make for an attractive female personality check out the bullet points in the article on how to attract a man. This will give you an outline on the personality traits that naturally attractive women have.

What Man Do You Want In A Man?

Knowing what kind of men you like can make it easier to get them. Think about the type of man that you feel attracted to and write down the qualities that will make that type of men attracted to you.

To become more attractive to the type of guys that you like it is an advantage if you have the positive qualities that they are looking for in a partner. This can be hard to guess so if you have no clue then you can ask some of your male friends. Talking about this kind of stuff with guys is great and you will be surprised at the amount of tips you can get from guys! Next time you are at a bar just say hi and ask these questions to a cute guy that is standing near you.

Talking to guys about what attracts them in women is a very easy way to start up a conversation and most men are very happy to talk about it. The guys that you talk you can even help you in other ways because they can introduce you to their friends.

Remember that the majority of women is terrified to start a conversation or ask these questions because they think its stupid to ask this. Don’t do this! Just ask and you will get a lot of feedback and meet new guys at the same time. For more tips on how to seduce men you can check out the articles on how to attract men, how to get a guy to like you, and the articles on relationship advice for women!

So how to tell if a guy likes you? How do you know if a guy likes you? That is what this article is about. You can tell if a guy likes you based on different signals like body language, verbally and by his actions. In this article about how to tell if a guy likes you we will talk about tips that can help you to determine in an easy way if a guy is into you or not.

One of the main things you have to be aware of is body language. Interpreting the guys body language can tell if a guy likes you or not.

Some experts say that when the man has open body language, like open arms that they are interested in being approached. The closed arms can mean that he is not interested or it can mean that he is shy. You should not follow these body language rules to the letter because things vary a lot, many men are not that confident and are shy, this doesn’t mean that they do not feel attracted to you.

How to tell if a guy likes you by his body language

These body language signals to tell if a guy likes you or not have to be interpreted correctly. This are different if you spotted a sexy stranger across the room or when you are talking to a guy you already know and have been introduced to.

One of the easiest ways how to tell if a guy likes you is through his eye contact. If he is looking into your eyes it means he is interested and attracted to you. When a guy likes you he will look deep into your eyes. If he is a guy in a club or social occasion and you haven’t met before some eye contact or a smile is a big indicator of interest. It is well known that eye gazing is an indicator that the guy is sexually interested in you, even if he looks away it may be because he is nervous and is a bit shy. If prolonged eye contact occurs that means he is into you and that he is a confidant man.

A really good eye contact trick that you can do is looking at the clock. If you are out for dinner and want to do a little trick to see if he likes you then you should look at the watch that is mounted on the wall and quickly look into his eyes. If he was also looking at the clock on the wall it means he was checking you out.

Another good way how to tell if a guy likes you is by seeing if he already told is friends that he likes you. Watch for funny ques that his friends might say because he is interested in you. They may start teasing him and leave you alone so you can have some private conversation time.

If he is always around you when you are in a group of friends and if he gives you a lot of attention then it is obvious he likes you. Many guys are a bit smarter now and behave a little bit like players, talking to other girls while you are there. They do this to peek you interest and to make you a little bit jealous. If a guy goes and talks to another girl, then comes back to talk for a few minutes and is back talking to other girls he may be trying not to look desperate and overly interested. This also means he is into you.

Another way how to tell if a guy likes you is through physical contact. If he hugs you when he jokes around and teases you and if he brushes up against you it means he finds you attractive. This touching can be when he touches you on your arm while you talk and it can happen “accidentaly”. If a guy doesn’t like you the he will certainly now be touching and hugging you.

How do you Know if a Guy Likes You

There are many other ways to know if a guy likes you or not, some are very subliminal and other are more direct. Watch out though, you have to interpret everything right. If a guy says the you are a really cool, that he enjoys your company, that you are stunning and gorgeous it can mean that he is interested in you romantically and sexually or it can be that he is just being nice because he is your friend.

If you make him laugh and he is always happy around you that means you contribute to that. If he is being playful and teasing you it is a fact that he likes you. It also works the other way around. If the man is very nervous it means that he is so impressed with you or that he is a bit rusty in the dating thing and he doesn’t want to mess things up with you.

Normally women are good at reading these signals but sometimes we all get confused, and it is probably always when its with a guy we really care about. If a guy opens the door for you it means he is well educated and that he has respect for you. If he helps you with something at your house it means that he really cares.

One of the surefire ways to tell if a guy likes you is if he remembers your conversations. If you told him about some activity, trip or whatever and he still asks you about it and remembers the details it means interested in your life and in you.

I think that some men have become a little bit more selfish in the last years. In the last years there are more “players” because of many new seminars and books that focus on female seduction. Before women had a bigger advantage because we have been reading magazines with hundreds of tips on seducing men. Nowadays many guys have joined the ranks of being more in tune with their feelings and they know how to make us feel attracted to them. This makes things a bit more complicated for us girls because we are dealing with more emotionally savvy guys. And that is great!

One of the things the new wave of guys do is not go out on dates as much. Not so many dinners and movies but that means when a guy is interested when he asks you out. Why would he ask you out if he was not attracted to you? When a guy asks you out it can mean that he wants to be friends also, but that you can tell when you are with him. When you are in doubt you can always ask him. Ask him if he likes you or not, if he gets nervous then you know its a yes and if he starts teasing you it is also a yes!

There are more tips on how to tell if a guy likes you and tips on how to get a boyfriend in our other articles so don’t miss them!!